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"What do you mean, not vagina is not your boss’ business?"
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Anonymous said: I just wanted to share this with you! For a few years now it's been nearly impossible for me to get off with just my hands. I almost always use bathtub jets. However, today I rubbed my clit in small circles and did kegel squeezes at 40 bpms at the same time with a metronome. I edged in less than five minutes! It was so amazing. I think I'll be doing that from now on.
Isn’t it fun finding new ways to drive yourself crazy?
40 bpms is the minimum speed for most metronomes… One thing you could do is to change to 80 bpms and doing two beats per circle, so you are at the same speed. (Essentially,. nothing’s changed.) That will allow you to experiment with slowing things down. For example, you could find the minimum speed that you can edge at, and then force yourself to try five or ten minutes at a speed just below that. ;-)
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Anonymous said: Do you know any blogs about ruined orgasms for girls? I've never given myself one but find myself becoming increasingly interested in them! But can't seem to find much about them online. Thanks! x
I don’t know any that are about ruined orgasms. Wow, I just checked and even I don’t have many posts about ruined orgasms.
Sorry I’m not more help on this one. Most discussion about ruined orgasms are about men. I think part of this is because male ruined orgasms are so much more photogenic and the internet is a very visually-oriented space.
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Anonymous said: I am looking for some real accounts of denial for my wife to read. She wants to read real accounts of long term edging/denial that focuses on the effects and challenges. Anything you can recommend?
Hmmm… off the top of my head tonight…
I’m not sure what you’re looking for… if you’re looking for real life accounts of sessions or “so… this time my master is making me…” posts then most of these will be fun. If you’re looking for essays about it, then the first one is right up your alley and the rest is just hot reading. :-)
… aaannnnnddd… at this point, fear, because I know there are some who I should have mentioned but haven’t thought of who I’m going to think of later and think “duhhhh!”. There are lots of blogs that are about female denial or by women who definitely have that kink, but no more who actually post frequently about their adventures come to mind right now. Come back and check the notes on this post later. Maybe some readers will reblog with other suggestions to other tumblrs or specific posts?
FIFTY SHADES OF GREY || OFFICIAL TRAILER
Okay, so say what you like about how the 50 Shades of Grey books are over-hyped or poorly represent BDSM culture and ethics, but ya gotta admit: This is a hot 2½ minutes!
Quiet, I’ll allow. However, shrinking from compliments and never believing in your own beauty to the point where you literally keep her head down as you walk in public is not acceptable, princess. I have reminded you, we have watched a TED talk on body language together, but if old habits die hard, that just means harsher measures. Like it or not, mine, you are going to learn to stand tall.
Anonymous said: my boyfriend gets genuinely upset when i don't want to give him oral & he says he understands that i'm triggered by it. if it's a constant, daily thing to have panic attacks when he presents the idea, sometimes even pushing me a little too hard, do you think he could really ease me into being comfortable w/ doing this like he thinks he can? sort of like re-wiring my brain to be comfortable with something that makes me uncomfortable & i've been uncomfortable with for a long time?
Look, there are ways to do that but this is the wrong way to go about it. The kink you’re looking for is something that is really awesome and effective, but you have to do it for you, not for him.
I’m really concerned with how you phrase this problem because as I see this a) your boyfriend knows you have panic attacks over oral but still asks for it daily, b) he gets genuinely upset when you refuse, c) he pushes you and ignores your boundaries.
These are red flags. Huge ones. Do not even think about pushing yourself to overcome a trigger for his dick’s sake. Don’t even. That is sick and is ridiculous. You deserve to be treated with respect and patience and understanding and until you get that, I would completely refuse him oral or leave the relationship. It sounds like he doesn’t care about your emotional well being and it’s just disgusting.
Please take care of yourself.
oh dear~ you can beg and yell all you want~ no one will come to help you~ meanwhile, how about you let me listen to that laugh of yours hmmm?
"Tomorrow, I’ll even let you choose whether or not those hands will make you cum repeatedly or just keep you on edge. I’m sure I’ll find it entertaining either way."
Every day she would tell the psychiatrist how she was abducted at night by the wardens and they used her as their sex toy
but he would show her the cctv from her room showing how she slept like a baby all night …
it was faked of course
losing my mind used to scare me…but as it goes it turns out i really dont even care ne more.
As sleep deprivation took it’s toll, her mind became more pliable. She was nearly ready for the next phase…
"Would you like me to stop by at night to make sure you’re well fucked in?"
"… what, Doctor?"
"I asked if you’d like me to stop by at night to make sure you’re tucked in and sleeping."
"Oh… Would you, please? Maybe around 3 in the morning is when it’s happening, as near as I can tell."
"You mean the hallucinations? They happen on schedule?"
"I… I still can’t believe it’s all in my mind! It seems so real!"
"Mmmm… well, remind me tomorrow and we’ll examine that further. In any case, I won’t commit to checking on you at a specific time. I know you’ll be spending all night gazing at a cock."
"… at a what, Doctor?"
"I said I can’t have you anticipating when I’d check on you, it would be counter-productive, with you struggling to keep your eyes spread wide open and watching a clock the whole night. You need your rest."
"… yes Doctor."
"You seem shaky. I’m going to assign a physical therapist to make sure you get lots of exercise over the next few days. It should help with your sleep and a good workout has lots of other advantages, too. If things don’t improve then we’ll try a little hypnosis, okay?"
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