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"I will be washing you every day, slut. Rule number one is: You do not even touch yourself without permission of each and every one of your superiors. Rule number two is: As the new girl, everyone here is your superior. Now, if you’re smart, we won’t need to teach you: This means rule number three is whatever I fucking say it is!”
Sybil Danning and Linda Blair, “Chained Heat”, 1983.
The worst part is the anticipation within the wait, wondering if I’m going to let you wait in peace, or how I might amuse myself while waiting to be amused.
It’s that people think it’s all or nothing and that you can’t make choices.
You don’t have to do everything on the kink list to be a Dom or a sub. It’s a LIFESTYLE, so tailor it to your life!
If your a Dom who doesn’t like inflicting pain, then don’t. If you are a sub who loves being cropped, then don’t get with a Dom who hates using implements. What is it with this idea that you have to just take whatever anyone offers you? Compatibility exists in the BDSM world, too. And believe me…I am not compatible with every Dom, lol.
My point here is that find someone who is into the same shit you are! You don’t have to settle simply because someone is a Dom or sub. That’s the same as just picking someone who is a guy or girl and not exploring any deeper into who they are. If I like men, I don’t just pick ANY man to be with…so if I want a Dom why would I just pick any random. Dom?! I should be looking to see if we match up on interests, likes and dislikes, as I would with anyone else I was dating. It can’t be able play time and scenes all the time. I mean, I should be looking to see if I like this guy as a person first and everything else comes after that.
People over-complicate this and it’s really not that deep. Go with someone you vibe with. It goes for D/s and everywhere eles in life. Don’t sell yourself short and don’t force yourself into something that isn’t going to work long-term just for the sake of having a Dom or sub. Believe me, the frustration of settling doesn’t go away.
so on the bright side of things…
if everything goes according to plan, i’m gonna go to two kink parties this month~nov. 1st. one is a halloween party at the bondage store, and the other is a saints and sinners theme. i’ll be escorted by mbstard & martini-lover :D and hopefully get spanked by the former >:D we’ll meet up this week to make sure we’re on the same page and all that ~
i’m excitedddd!!! and nervous but hey whatever
Yay! It’ll be a safe & friendly crowd. I hope to meet you, scumdoll!
Sometimes you want to be in control, and that can be fun when I let you have it, but most of the time you just want control taken from you, and that’s fun, too..
Oni Chichi 2 Revenge | Episode 1
The most damning thing of all is how we both know that facing these truths just makes you even more needy for touches, sweetie?
Butt Plug Dare
Preferable time to try: Evening
Fill your ass with butt plug (extra lube) and stuff your pussy with panties. I’m sure you will love the way it feels when both holes are full.
Now go for a walk in public or shopping with a short skirt or tight jeans, without panties of course. Feel the breeze when it hits right spot or concentrate on the friction of tight jeans when it touches bare skin.
Spend at least an hour like that.
Take out your damped panties when you reach home. Sniff it and play with your clit for a minute. Put your panties back on. Do you like the squishiness? I bet it feels just good.
Remove buttplug , clean it. Hold it in your hand and go to sleep.
Just remember, I have not given permission to cum! This is a denial dare
Report back to me next day by either submitting as anonymous.
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